When we talk about ADHD Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, most people think of inattention, impulsivity, or hyperactivity. But there’s another side of ADHD that often goes unrecognized one that can cause deep emotional pain and distress. Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria RSD.
If you or someone you love has ADHD and seems “overly sensitive” to criticism, easily hurt by perceived rejection, or quick to experience emotional outbursts after feeling slighted, RSD may be a key part of the puzzle.
RSD is an extreme emotional sensitivity and pain triggered by the perception not always the reality of rejection, criticism, or failure. The emotional response can feel instant, overwhelming, and disproportionate to the situation.
People with RSD may:
Although RSD is not officially listed as a separate diagnosis in the DSM 5, many clinicians especially those working with neurodivergent patients recognize RSD as a common co occurring experience in individuals with ADHD.
In fact, research and patient reports suggest:
This heightened emotional response may be due to the way the ADHD brain processes emotional regulation, particularly in the prefrontal cortex and amygdala the parts of the brain involved in emotional control, decision making, and fear response.
People with RSD often describe it as
“ Emotional whiplash.”
“A gut punch over something someone else barely noticed.”
“It’s like my whole identity falls apart after one piece of criticism.”
Rejection doesn’t have to be real. Even a neutral facial expression, a text that wasn’t returned quickly, or a joking comment can trigger an emotional spiral.
RSD responses often appear sudden because the brain reacts before the logical mind has time to process the situation. Many people with ADHD experience emotional input more strongly and more rapidly, which makes even small moments feel amplified. This fast emotional surge can create a sense of overwhelm long before a person has the chance to think through what actually happened.
While RSD can feel overwhelming, you are not alone and there are ways to manage it.
Effective treatment of core ADHD symptoms can reduce emotional reactivity. This includes
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy CBT, Dialectical Behavior Therapy DBT, and mindfulness based strategies can help patients
At Perfect Balance Psychiatric Services, we work with patients to identify the emotional undercurrents of ADHD including RSD and provide compassionate, personalized care that addresses both the neurological and emotional aspects of the disorder.
Living with ADHD and RSD doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means your brain responds to the world in intense and meaningful ways and with the right support, you can learn to navigate relationships, criticism, and self-worth with resilience, not reactivity.
If you or a loved one is struggling with emotional overwhelm, constant fear of rejection, or ADHD symptoms that affect daily life, we’re here to help.
Let’s find the balance that works for you.
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